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How to Manage Caregiving for Parents and Children At the Same Time
In 2020, I found myself being a caregiver for my father and my kids at the same time.
Fortunately for me, this was a temporary situation as my father healed from an accident. During those 5 months, I frequently felt pulled in many directions. Some find themselves caregiving for their parents and children for much longer periods of time.
It’s important to find ways to make this process easier on yourself.
Tips to make caregiving more manageable
Step 1: Ensure you have legal documents in place
You may need paperwork to manage your parent’s finances, make medical decisions, and communicate with doctors. In addition, a will and living will should be in place.
These documents make caregiving easier when you need to communicate and advocate on your parent’s behalf.
Step 2: Get support wherever you can
Accept other family members cooking a meal or cleaning. Sign up for grocery delivery. If neighbors offer help with yard work or checking the mail, allow them.
Order other nongrocery household items to be delivered. If your parent qualifies for in-home care…